PREGNANCY
& THE BIRTHING PROCESS
The following
information
was compiled from interviews with women of Korean ancestry living in Hawaii.
This page is not a substitute for medical care.
Please see your doctor or health care provider if you are
pregnant.
In traditional
Korean culture, when a
woman gets married, she goes to live with her husband and his parents.
It is understood that her main role is to take care
of them, until she gets
pregnant.
From that moment, up until a month after giving birth, it is she
who will be taken
care of---by
her mother-in-law and/or mother.
PRENATAL
PERIOD
- In
modern-day Korea, it
is not uncommon for a pregnant woman to receive monthly sonograms.
- It
is illegal in Korea to find out the sex of a baby until it is born.
However, Koreans have identified signs which are believed to predict
the sex of an
unborn child. For instance:
If a
pregnant woman . . .
If
she . . .
- has no morning
sickness
has intense
morning sickness
- has a rounded
tummy
has a pointed tummy
- likes
to eat meat
craves sour foods, and fruits and vegetables
- sees
a strong animal in a dream . . .
sees pretty flowers,
jewelry, pearls in water in s dream . . .
the baby will
be a boy.
the baby will
be a girl.
Culturally-based practices
intended to favorably influence fetal development include . . .
To ensure a healthy
baby, a pregnant
woman . . .
To ensure a smart
baby, she . . .
- looks
at nice pictures.
eats
nicely-shaped, brightly-colored, attractive fruits.
- refrains
from thinking bad thoughts.
relaxes and thinks positive thoughts.
- avoids talking about bad
things.
reads religious
material.
- listens to classical music.
studies math and listens to classical
music.
To
ensure
a good-looking
baby, she . . .
- collects
pictures of attractive famous people and/or good-looking babies.
- eats nice
fruits. (It is believed
that if ugly/rotten fruits are consumed, the baby will be unattractive
or deformed.)
- tries to avoid
harboring hatred toward others. (The baby will
inherit the traits it's mother disliked in the individual(s).
Activities prohibited
during pregnancy include . . .
- Don't run
(walk slowly); don't exercise too much. (These
actions will lead to miscarriage.)
- Don't attend funerals, or view
a dead body. (Spirit
of the deceased will be jealous, and harm/kill the baby.)
LABOR & DELIVERY
- Historically,
Korean culture dictated that a pregnant woman's husband was not allowed
to be present during labor and delivery: only her mother-in-law (and/or
mother) was permitted to be there.
(Today, it is not uncommon for a
man/husband to witness the birth of his child(ren).
- A
woman is expected to endure labor quietly: she must not cry loudly or
shout during the birthing process.
To ensure a safe labor and delivery . . .
- the
home where a woman will give birth must be kept clean.
Korean
for "expectant
mother"
- sick
or troubled persons are not permitted to visit.
POST-PARTAL PERIOD
- A woman
enjoys a three-week to one-month post-partal "recovery" period, during
which time she can expect to be cosseted (i.e., pampered) by her
mother-in-law. Traditionally, this has been especially true if
a woman gave birth to a male child. (One interviewee reported
that she knew of husbands who left home for a few days because they
were disappointed that they did not "get a son." She also
reported
that, following the birth of a female child, a woman's mother-in-law
might overtly press her to bear additional children, to "try for a baby
boy.")
- For at least one week after
giving birth, a woman must not
not take a tub-bath; only sponge-baths are permitted.
- Following birth of a child, a
woman's body is to be kept covered; warmth is believed to promote
healing. (It
is believed that, if a woman is not kept warm during the post-partal
period, rheumatism and bone problems will occur later in life.)
- During the post-partal period,
a
woman is encouraged not to be overly active, but she may
perform non-strenuous duties in the home.
- Only immediate family members
are permitted to see a newborn in the initial post-partal period. (Others
must wait at
least 15 days, or up to one month, to visit.)
- After a
newborn's
umbilical cord falls off, and for the first year of the baby's life, a
mother keeps the cord "stump" in a special place, along with
the
blanket and clothing first used by her child.
- For at least
two weeks after giving birth, a woman will eat seaweed soup (miyeok
guk) one or more times each day. (The
ingredients in this soup are believed to promote breast milk production
and quality, as well as increase energy and advance healing in
the
post-partal period: one interviewee stated the dish
"helps flush out and push out the bad stuff.")